I did something like this post of things I believe at 54. Its my birthday so here are 60 things I believe now about all kinds of things.
- I still believe Jesus is the Son of God.
- Perception colors everything.
- Feeling “hot” or “cold” has little to do with air temperature.
- To make money as a writer you need more books.
- The value of a thing is not determined by how hard you worked on it.
- Value is set by the consumer.
- 60 isn’t that old, but don’t kid yourself, its still up there.
- You’ve got to fight the fight.
- It’s okay to be pretty.
- You aren’t a grown up until your make something of yourself, or at least live on your own.
- You won’t make something of yourself just doing what others tell you.
- People should probably give more fucks.
- We outsource so much of our thinking, and that is ok.
- Pick your oursourcers intentionally.
- Intentionality is the key.
- Doing something a little everyday is more important than doing something a lot once.
- Things have changed.
- WordPress isn’t as easy as it used to be.
- Software has lost its way.
- Apple used to be all about simplicity. Now its overly concern with security.
- The amount of online security a normal person needs is not that much.
- Social media only controls you if you use it as an outsource. (see 15)
- Or you spend too much time on it.
- Don’t believe crazy things.
- I guess you need to be able to discern crazy.
- Know how when a source says something about a topic you know and its dumb? That’s probably true of topics you don’t know.
- People who don’t understand the stock market shouldn’t try to use it for divination.
- “I read a study” has replaced “scripture says”.
- “I read a study” is used just as badly as “scripture says”.
- People generally pick studies to confirm their bias.
- Just like scripture in the past.
- I learn most of how to question sources from studying exegesis.
- Things aren’t true just because a scientist or a doctor says them.
- We probably aren’t as right as we think we are.
- I watched a documentary doesn’t make you sound smart. I read a book on the other hand…
- Your kids are influenced by you, but not as strongly as you think.
- And probably not in the areas you think.
- There are 1000s of ways to be a bad parent.
- But only a few to being a good ones.
- And the later doesn’t guarantee “success”.
- Stop beating yourself up.
- Treat yourself like you’d treat your best friend, not your worst enemy.
- I’m starting to doubt autocorrect. I seem to spend a lot of time correcting it.
- ChatGPT isn’t evil.
- AI chatbots will rapidly replace Internet search.
- The implication for online advertising is profound.
- Google enshitified search with advertising.
- Coffee tastes like liquid dirt, and RedBull tastes like sweet tarts.
- Developers need to count the number of clicks to do something again.
- Please give users preference again.
- My life has been easy.
- Tragedy is not evenly distributed.
- I don’t think it comes in threes either.
- It is easier to write when you know what you are writing.
- Writing is rewriting.
- Though I don’t think it has to be and isn’t for experienced people.
- Seems the change happens around 6 novels.
- Your social network – those people you interact with regularly – are the key to success and happiness.
- The bible isn’t easy intentionally.
- I should take #1 more seriously.
Rereading the 54 at 54, I think I was deeper then.